On Monday, I got to go hang out and volunteer with my young friend, Roa, who also has cerebral palsy. He’s in elementary school and reminds me of me when I was that age. I remember playing hide and seek in those same hallways during recess when I was his age. In the winter, when my wheelchair couldn’t get through the snow outside, several other kids would stay in and play hide-and-seek in the school hallways with me. I bet we disrupted lots of classrooms because I have a contagious laugh!
I didn’t really ever know anyone with CP or a physical disability when I was growing up. I think it would have been easier if I had had a mentor in elementary school. Just to know that I wasn’t alone. Thanks to my former therapists and teachers for connecting me with this amazing young man.
He has a grace in him that maybe people don’t always see. I see him. I see the boy who smiles, whose eyes light up, who is driving his chair faster and more independently than when I first met him two years ago and is getting so much better at using his communication device. He likes telling jokes which is something I loved to do in elementary school!
Sometimes we all need kindness and hope and grace. I find it when I get to hang out with Roa.
Happy holidays to you all. Wishing you all hope, grace, and kindness.